How About Live-In Relation-ship?

Suddenly i thought Life is a bit complicated thing. Sometimes a few moments are required to understand someone and sometimes one cannot understand other during entire lifetime and Marriages are made in heaven and broken on earth.What essential thing that is grossly missing today in our relationships is love, trust and commitment.
One OF My Friend said to me "marriage is a journey, where the two people wear there worst clothes". well its true that a marriage needs to be based on the principles of mutuality and reciprocity of rights and obligations.


Living-in relation is mostly a decision made by the new generation women. Men were always ready for a "liability free" sex life. But for women, it is a bold step she is taking or a kind of challenge she is making on the male section who still fancy to live on the money of her father, fancy to keep a Sati-savitri at home.Women today understand her more. She know her wants and desires. Men will no longer be able to hide their inability or weakness under the "sanctity" cover of marriage.I disagree with all those ppl who think that Live-in relationships promote pre-marital sex. Ppl indulge in it anyway Live-in is not just about sex, it also about knowing the other person, cutting costs in expensive urban cities.Plus it's a personal choice.The concept of live has come in when women has started asserting their rights. Its not that it was not happening in earlier societies, only difference it was being done by the MALE species. Live in is nothing but a choice exerted by two consentual adults. If you equate it to free sex then it is your misdoing. As far as love is concerned it is there in a live in as well. Except a legal agreement, it is the same as marriage.

As well as this is India we respect Family n Traditions n still we believe that marriage is not happen only between two person but between two families the old rituals are there with two person to bless them and give them strength to understand each other the family is there to support them and still it is believe that if you love someone you can adjust with them easily in the marriage n there is feeling of sacrifice in marriage.Our society has a heritage of its own. It need not be influenced by western culture. Marriage has been and is a successful phenomenon.What is correct is marriages based on love , trust and commitment which last a lifetime.