Have You Ever Ask This....?

Have you ever asked these questions to yourself?  "Am I wanted? Does anyone need me? " If no, you are a very lucky person. We all have our self-esteem. Along with our self-esteem, we also have a desire that someone should need us. That someone should want us. A mother is delighted when her children come shouting to her and ask for food. As the children grow up, they become self-reliant and move away. The mother is no longer wanted by them for anything. This creates a vacuum in her life, that she tries to fill with other work, but the satisfaction is not same. This is equally true for fathers. It is equally true with office workers who are depended upon for any task. If they feel that they are not wanted, they not only lose their self-esteem, but also feel very lonely

The desire of others to fulfil their needs connects us with them. It also gives us a great sense of self worth. We all have the inner desire that someone should depend upon us for a need that can be fulfilled only by us. Feeling of being wanted is very important to give us the sense of self worth. In every relationship , One needs the self-esteem, that comes from the feeling that one is wanted.